At the time, the pair were relatively new to dairy farming and had only been in the sector less than a year.
Jean reached out to DairyNZ and signed up to their support service, Dairy Connect, which links farmers looking for information on a particular topic with another farmer who has experience in that subject.
“We were in our first season of sharemilking and we had to employ a staff member to help with calving, so I signed up asking for advice on recruitment.”
Wilson was paired with Anne-Marie Wells who, with her husband Duncan, won the Dairy Business of the Year competition in 2015.
After moving to New Zealand from the United Kingdom, Wells could relate to Wilson’s situation and the pair, who live just five kilometres apart, quickly became close friends.
“It was uncanny how much we had in common. It was pretty exciting from my perspective as we didn’t really know anyone in Taieri well at that stage,” Wilson said.
Inspired to help connect other rural people in the area, particularly women, the pair set up the Taieri Rural Community group.
“The typical farmers’ wife role seems to be, for many, doing the book work and looking after the kids. This means they are often isolated, and seldom interact with anyone aside from their husband and kids,” Wilson said.
It could be even more challenging for those without children, as schools were often the meeting hub in a small community, she said.
“The goal of the group is to make it easier to meet new people when it can be challenging to get time off farm.”
But the group isn’t just restricted to farmers, it’s open to anyone in the community.
“We never wanted it to be exclusively for farmers. It’s all about building a sense of connection in the community,” Wells said.
Their first meeting had 40 women attend, and a strong turnout since.
To help make it easier for everyone to stay connected and up-to-date with what events they have coming up, they have set up a Facebook page, ‘Taieri Rural Community’.
The events range from coffee catch-ups to discuss quick meals to prepare during calving, to practical sessions on rose pruning and reversing a trailer.
The pair encourages farming newcomers to reach out to Dairy Connect.
Anne-Marie said she jumped at the opportunity when asked to be a Dairy Connect mentor to help give back to the dairy sector.
“Farming is different to other sectors as it’s very open and people are happy to share what works, because we’re not in competition with one another. We’re all working together,” she said.
She has found it rewarding to be part of Dairy Connect.
“It’s nice to have a support network of people that understand each other. I appreciate how difficult it can be to ask for help and Dairy Connect makes it that little bit easier.
“If you offer someone advice and it makes a positive difference for them, that’s such a good feeling.”